Grieving Parents: Supporting your relationship through loss - October 22nd
Lead by Terri Rask BSW, RSW
This presentation helps partners who have lost a child navigate their grief, understand each other’s unique grieving processes, and strengthen their relationship. Grief after losing a child is a profound, individual experience that can strain relationships if not addressed. Partners can learn how to process emotions and support each other by:
Recognizing Core Emotions: Grief involves primary emotions like sadness (a natural response to loss) and secondary emotions like guilt, anger, or shame, which may mask deeper feelings. Often we react with primary emotions, and can't identify the core emotion that is truly driving our grief.
Acknowledging Differences: Each parent grieves uniquely based on their personality, relationship with the child, and past experiences. One may feel intense sadness, while the other may express anger or withdraw. When we can hold safe space to understand how we process the loss differently, we can better understand our partner, and provide support more effectively.
Fostering Connection: When we can create ways for more vulnerable communication and meaningful understanding to occur, the relationship is strengthened. Connection happens by helping partners share emotions, validate differences, and understanding how to meet each other’s needs
The presentation emphasizes the process required to identify, express, and transform emotions to foster healing and connection. The intent is to plant seeds of hope that partners can lean into one another in new ways that will grow their relationship deeper and promote healing together.